Being an adult means you can make a command decision for the family and make dinner a medium shake at the Baskin Robbins down the street. It also means the vestigial amounts of caffeine in the Jamocha ice cream will keep you up until 3AM questioning your life choices.

Date posted: June 27, 2025 | Filed under life | Leave a Comment »

Jen made me some cream of wheat for breakfast this morning, and it made me think of childhood weekend mornings when Dad would make us breakfast; I preferred his cream of wheat to his eggs. He’d load a bowl full for each of us and make a little island volcano in the center: butter in the cone, brown sugar on the land, surrounded with some milk. The way the flavors mix always felt like a warm hug, even when we knew he was preparing us for hours of cold dreary manual labor outside.

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I miss you, Dad.

Date posted: June 26, 2025 | Filed under family, flickr | 1 Comment »

It’s pretty brutal across the Mid-Atlantic right now; we went from a month of wet but temperate weather straight into Sauna mode in one day. The girls and I disassembled and cleaned out all of our window units before installing them, and they’ve been rumbling away since Sunday evening. I’ve been curious to know exactly what it might cost to have ductless A/C installed in the house, so I called up a local company who’d come recommended to us by a neighbor and had the rep come out to walk through the house. He wasn’t scared by the layout, and is supposed to give us a quote for a couple of different options sometime today.

I’m prioritizing the bedrooms upstairs, knowing that the cold air will fall, and we talked about another unit in the office. It looks like the outside unit would most likely go on the west side under the dining room window, or possibly on the driveway side, but we’ll have to see how things shake out.

I don’t know that I’ve got the money for this immediately handy, but I want to know what we need to save up for to get it done. I’m sick and tired of humping window units up and down the stairs, having them block up the windows in each room, and having to store them on the porch or in one of the bedrooms all winter long. I was able to enjoy central A/C in my rowhome for a total of a year and a half before we moved; that was 22 years ago and it’s time to upgrade.

Date posted: June 25, 2025 | Filed under house | Leave a Comment »

On my way down to Southern Maryland last weekend, I saw the shape of a semi-familiar vehicle out of the corner of my eye but didn’t have time to stop and check it out. On my way back north, I pulled over to give it a better look, and found a very rare 4×4 here in the states: a first-generation Nissan Patrol. These were only sold in the states from 1962-69, so this example is a unicorn. It’s in excellent shape: the sheet metal looked good, and the interior was clean.

I can’t say that I’m a huge fan of the color, but it is unique, and could very well be period-correct.

It’s always great to see an antique 4×4 on the road.

Date posted: June 24, 2025 | Filed under cars | Leave a Comment »

Sad news hit me late last week via Instagram; old friend of the blog Lis passed away after a series of health issues (fuck cancer, etc.) We overlapped at MICA and ran in some of the same circles but struck up a better acquaintance via the web later on. I didn’t pivot to Twitter the way she did, and I think the RockHaus went on hiatus sometime in 2010, so we lost more immediate contact, but we were still on Instagram together. The post that clued me in also featured a candid snap of the two of us—I can’t remember exactly when it was taken, but I’m glad it exists.

Rest in peace, Lis.

Date posted: June 23, 2025 | Filed under friends | Leave a Comment »

With the conclusion of high school, we are now in that glorious, short-lived period of time when the household doesn’t need to be up and moving at 6:45, which means we can lay in bed an extra hour and doze. I don’t know who is happier about this—us, or Hazel.

With the onset of the Heat Dome over the mid-Atlantic region, we spent Sunday morning out in the backyard disassembling and scrubbing out all of our window units with bleach. The girls went to see a movie and I put everything back together, then humped them all up the stairs and into each of the bedrooms. As much of a hassle as it is, it was lovely to have the place cool and dry again. We’ve got a guy coming today to give us an estimate on what a ductless A/C system might cost; I have no idea what to expect but it would be good to have a number to work towards. And if I could ditch these fucking machines once and for all, I’d be thrilled.

Date posted: June 23, 2025 | Filed under family | Leave a Comment »

Something’s Always Wrong, by Toad the Wet Sprocket. I got this stuck in my head at a rest stop in Pennsylvania on the way home from Ohio. It’s probably the only song by this unfortunately named band that I like; the harmonies in the bridge are beautiful. This was on heavy alternative radio airplay back in the day in a time when “alternative” music was losing steam and leaning towards easy listening. I would have posted the actual music video, but it sucks.

Date posted: June 17, 2025 | Filed under earworm, music | Leave a Comment »

I wrote about the Nationals trip last week over on the Scout site; needless to say it was a great time.

Hanky and Peer Pressure behind the Scout Motors Terra

→ This is a syndicated post from my Scout weblog. More info here.

Date posted: June 17, 2025 | Filed under Scout | Leave a Comment »

Date posted: June 9, 2025 | Filed under photography | Leave a Comment »

It’s been a minute since I’ve bought digital music online. Here’s the bullshit I had to go through to buy an album this afternoon:

  1. Apple’s Music app (the replacement for iTunes) in its normal state, does not have a visible link or menu item for the iTunes Store. It can be made visible in the Preferences. Why is this?
  2. The only visible way to see new music is to sign up for a subscription plan, which I refuse to do. I have enough subscriptions.
  3. So I went to Amazon, where the only visible link is a subscription shill as well. I refuse to do this too. Surely there must be a better way.
  4. A couple of searches later, I found a CNET article on how to buy and download new music. CNET still exists?
  5. This contained a link to a page on Amazon that was not immediately available from my Prime account. Thanks.
  6. From here I found my album. I purchased and downloaded it in MP3 format.
  7. Now, to get it on my iPhone. I imported it into Apple Music, figuring it would sync. It did not.
  8. Another search told me to AirDrop the files to my phone. I did this, and it only put the files in my iCloud Files folder without importing them. I deleted them. The fuck?
  9. More searching revealed that I needed to connect my phone via a cable to my computer. How very 2005 of them.
  10. I did this, the first time I’ve connected this phone to my computer ever. I had to tell each machine to trust the other, and wait for the handshake.
  11. Then I went through Ye Olde Sync screen to manually select the music and load it on my phone. How can this still be the way?

I am aghast at the state of things. I figured surely these days there would be a quicker, easier way that didn’t involve yet another subscription, but this is The State Of Things, I guess.

Date posted: June 9, 2025 | Filed under apple, music | Leave a Comment »